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So to put it bluntly, sex is about SURVIVAL. While men looked to women's physical attributes for child rearing abilities, men on the other hand could easily father children even in their later years, so women judged men on OTHER qualities- his ability to SURVIVE the challenges of life, to provide, to hunt, to protect, to get food, etc. And success requires emotional strength, so women Were looking for men who had that QUALITY. That quality of total confidence and this could be observed by a man's obvious self-esteem.
Once you develop this self-esteem, you will find it far more NATURAL to KID AROUND with women and to tease them and to NOT kiss their ass. After all, you are NOT AFRAID of what women Can do to you, since they can do NOTHING bad unless you ALLOW IT TO in your mind. And here is where a lot of guys mess up. They are all cool when they meet a woman, and then they get so used to having a woman around, that when the woman threatens them or acts up, the guy actually starts to FALL for her tricks and he even starts to BELIEVE that she may have some power over him. And he slowly starts to allow her to play With his emotions, to beat down on his confidence, And of course all this adds up to LOW SELF ESTEEM. Which of course ends up ruining the relationship. |
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But wait, it gets better:
We’ve mentioned that the first key to conveying coolness is to not try to show how great you are. Instead, to just focus on the conversation. The SECOND key to conveying VALUE is more “active”- you convey VALUE through all the things you are INTRINSICALLY- MOST IMPORTANTLY…. a compelling PERSONALITY. And THIS is the GREAT EQUALIZER. There are all kinds of inequalities in life, but personality does not have to be one of them. Do not take these words lightly: PERSONALITY COUNTS. If you look at the guys in real life who are most successful with women, (I’m talking about successful in the sense that the women are NUTS about them, not just that the women are with them, i.e. for money) you will see that they are not only confident and therefore don’t crawl for approval, but that they ALSO have COMPELLING PERSONALITIES |
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Beyond The First Contact:
After you have traded messages and the replies have been friendly and ongoing, the next step is chat contact or the phone. Private chats are a great way to get 'alone time' with the person in a 'real-time' conversation. If this is not possible because of the service features or missing computer hardware (no webcam), then move on to the phone call. Use an online service that acts as an intermediary phone service (blocks phone numbers from being revealed) or be use your call block service available from your phone company when calling the other person, just to be safe. |
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